I have many things of much seriousness to discuss but my time today is short and the issues are still brewing in my head so I just wanted to say this. For the second time, I was asked by someone at gym if I'd lost a lot of weight recently. Not by people I've met before, who knew me pre-weight loss and want to compliment me, but by people who can see I've lost weight by looking at my body. What does that say? That I'm all floppy and saggy? It's hardly the kind of thing you want to hear, I'd think.

I guess I just have firm up. Then people will think I've always been thin. Okay so maybe I have to get thin too. But it's coming. It really is.